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@grise Acceptess-T soutien les personnes trans en particulier les travailleuses du sexe, migrantes… Iels ont créé un fond d'aide pour les personnes trans précaires :
acceptess-t.com/aide-sociale

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Politique, rant (en même temps...) 

L'instruction en famille c'est une alternative qui sauve des vies en cas de harcèlement, pour des enfants différents (parce que faut pas se leurrer, poser un diag a un.e enfant c'est pas évident/forcément rapide) et enfin c'est un choix! Scrogneugneu!

Et on se sert du racisme et de l'islamophobie de ce pays pour faire passer cette idée d'interdire ce choix. Clairement.

Ça me fait tellement rager!

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"We are now collecting PDFs of significant and difficult-to-find publications from the last fifty years, focusing on urgency, radicality, and liberation."
queer.archive.work/library/dow

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all morgans are simply a facet of the cosmic morgan, who is represented by a large star in the virgo cluster.

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stuff about transphobia, cis people read, :boost_ok: 

Something that cis people need to understand, being trans is like going through water torture.

Almost all transphobia is indirect, it's noticable if you're the target, and it's not something you think twice about otherwise. No single instance of transphobia is enough to make someone beat up a trans woman, or to push someone to kill themselves, but... it adds up. All of these building up an implicit assumption that trans women are pretending, or are sex fetishists. That trans men are just confused women.

From going outside and people openly guessing your genitals as you walk past, to every instance someone calls you "Sir" or uses the wrong name or pronouns, stuff like, cheap jokes about transgender strippers that didn't even need to be in the source material for the joke to work, or trans women being played by men/vice versa.

All of it reinforces the harmful ideas that lead to that one man getting angry and grabbing a baseball bat. All of it gradually wears you down. Each drip becomes more harmful than the last, even though no physical or large damage is happening. And the extent to which this pervades society means it is *impossible to ignore*. You can't even turn on the tv and retreat into a show, because tv -- especially comedies (of which most have a "trans episode" if not a running gag about trans people throughout the show), are terrible with this shit. Hell, you can't even open up a presumably ok thread on the internet without encountering people continuing this shit.

So part of a community being a comfortable place for trans people, means actual *effort* from cis people to:

a) understand that when trans people get angry, it's out of years, decades, of frustration at having to point this shit out, of having these conversations over and over and over

and, b) try not go on the defensive, understand not to take it personally, just take what you can from the message, and work on it. And that effort cannot come /close/ to what trans people expend regularly just having to deal with all of this with /little to no/ help from cis people, with nobody else picking up the slack of dealing with this. With having to educate every single cis person we come across, even though statistically trans people occur at a higher rate than people with red hair, or people with albinism.

I don't blame other trans people for being angry, from snapping at cis people. I don't think it's a good way to get people to engage, but I can't fault then becuase I very intimately know where that frustration comes from
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Announcment to mastodon.social people 

Hey y'all on mastodon.social,
your instance sucks and some instances, including rage.love, will probably defederate from it soon.

I recommend you to look for a smaller, better moderated instance and move. If you don't know where to move, best check on which instances your mufos are.
Lmk if you have difficulties moving and I'll try to help.
If we are mufos I can issue you an invite for rage.love.

If you follow too many people to manually go through them and know how to run a script from the cli, you can use this script to check where your friends are: notabug.org/tofus/fediverse-in

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Comment perdre sa journée en 4 étape simple ? Un tuto :
- se faire subtoot sur facebook
- avoir envie de répondre
- se dire qu'un schéma ce serait ptet plus parlant
- ouvrir illustrator

Breeef je suis pas graphiste donc le résultat est pas ouf, mais voilà cadeau 🎁

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Karen was telling me that back in the day, "hacker" meant somebody who took apart programs to see how they worked. Like a reverse engineer. Not that people who do that NOW aren't hackers, but with the internet around the security breaches and terror of NETWORK hacking dominate the parlance and make "hacker" a feared and dirty word to normies.

How many of you have skulls and crossbones in your name or bio? How many of you cheered for The Pirate Party, or championed The Pirate Bay? Don't you understand that the world of 2020 uses the word "hacker" the way that the world of 1715 used the word "pirate"?

You INSPIRE TERROR IN NORMAL PEOPLE.

START USING IT.
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Idea for #Hacktoberfest: Instead of pushing code, you educate yourself on how software written by white men who do not listen to other people will never meet the needs of anyone.

Go read Technically Wrong, for instance. Or any of the billion posts, books and resources on the topic.

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Hello à la recherche d'aide !
Colocation queer sur Paris son compte insta: @reithrose ou sinon me contacter je fais suivre le message
Merci à tousTes 😊

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covid apps boosts++ 

If you see/hear about/have FOIA'd Covid contact tracing app source code, do me a favor and help me collect them?

sr.ht/~anelki/covid-tracking-a

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@introduction
Hop, je me présente Azari, nb transmasc autiste de 27ans.
Première fois sur Mastodon et associés donc euh soyez indulgent.e.
Je posterais probablement de temps en temps mon taf en créas (cuir et bijouterie) si y'a pas de soucis avec ca ^^

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trans folk with financial need,

you can apply here for one free year of hrt: pointofpride.org/hrt-access-fu

note: the deadline is today so apply soon. also they’re only accepting a limited number of applicants based on need, and only in some u.s. states

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Dunno who still needs to hear this but trans women are women, trans men are men, and trans enbies aren't women or men - they're powerful.

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(FR) Centre LGBTQI+ de Lyon ; Collaboration avec la SoFECT 

Le Centre LGBTQI+ de Lyon a décidé de collaborer avec la SoFECT.

L'asso trans Chrysalide a posté ce communiqué pour dénoncer cette prise de position.
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❗🚧🚧🚧❗On the 30th of September, from 20:00 up to 00:00 (UTC+2), our platform ɛxodus reports.exodus-privacy.eu.org will be down for maintenance. Sorry for the inconvenience!

Un truc chiant quand on pleure facilement, c'est que si on se retrouve à pleurer devant des gens, ils réagissent comme si c'était grave et veulent "t'aider" et tout alors que genre c'est pas grave faut juste te foutre la paix et laisser passer.

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medium take: normalize cisgender people using they/them, Mx., etc. iff they want -- it's not like there are enough of *us* to make it a thing

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Avec la crise du covid19 et l'arrivée de l'hiver, le nombre de dépressions et de suicides devrait mécaniquement augmenter cet hiver. (Dépressions saisonnières)
Prenez soin de vous et de vos proches.

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